“I predict future happiness for Americans if they can prevent the government from wasting the labors of the people under the pretense of taking care of them.”– Thomas Jefferson
The greatest lesson Mom ever taught me, though, was this one: she told me there would be times in your life when you have to choose between being loved and being respected. She said to always pick being respected, that love without respect was always fleeting -- but that respect could grow into real, lasting love.
Now, of course, she was talking about women.
But I have learned over time that it applies just as much to leadership. In fact, I think that advice applies to America today more than ever.
I believe we have become paralyzed by our desire to be loved.
Our founding fathers had the wisdom to know that social acceptance and popularity is fleeting and that this country’s principles needed to be rooted in strengths greater than the passions and emotions of the times.
Our leaders today have decided it is more important to be popular, to do what is easy and say “yes,” rather than to say no when “no” is what’s required.
In recent years, we as a country have too often chosen the same path.
It’s been easy for our leaders to say not us, and not now, in taking on the tough issues. And we’ve stood silently by and let them get away with it.
But tonight, I say enough.
I say, together, let’s make a much different choice. Tonight, we are speaking up for ourselves and stepping up.
We are beginning to do what is right and what is necessary to make our country great again.
We are demanding that our leaders stop tearing each other down, and work together to take action on the big things facing America.
Tonight, we choose respect over love.
We are not afraid. We are taking our country back. -Gov Chris Christie.
As I have said many a times, the Truth doesn’t care if you like it. It’s still the truth.
10 years ago I was facing a mountain of debt that I had no hope of fixing. Then I looked at myself and my situation very honestly.
I didn’t like what I saw. But unlike today, I didn’t blame others and then just keep doing it because it was there fault. I didn’t take the easy road.
Sure my ex-roommate had a lot to do with my nearly bankruptcy, but I also was responsible for helping him do it!
I decided that “It is what it is” and I don’t have to like it. But I do have to do something about it.
My parents come from the Depression as young kids and World War II as young adults. They came from an industrious, hard working, background.
I was rediscovering my roots.
I worked 2 jobs from 7:30am to 1am 5 days a week for years. My parents also saw that I had finally risen to the challenge but didn’t help me until years down that road.
I remade my life. From near bankruptcy (I had $125 in the bank and a rent payment for more than that in 2 weeks) nearly every week for 3 years to owning a home with a job with a 401K and a pension plan.
Now that was hard work. And it’s FAR from over. Far from over. But, I used to joke that it would have benefited me if I could have had a microwave in the passenger seat of my car because then I could eat commuting between jobs and get a longer nap (which was an hour). I settled for fast food and microwave dinners. Not the healthiest choice. But it was what it was.
But now I have an obsessive work ethic that drives my boss crazy.
I made the choice.
My ex-roommate is probably still living with his mother wondering why the universe doesn’t bow down and kiss his lazy ass brilliance.
That’s the difference.
And I see that today also.
And I applaud any politician who will stand up and not only tell you the truth about the shit we’re in, but actually wants to do something about it.
Mind you all the “roommates” want to complain to you about how mean you are.
Tough Crap. Tough Love. Tough Times.
My parents survived them so can we. But the spoiled brats have to grow up.
The Truth is what it is. You don’t have to like it.
16 Trillion in Debt isn’t going to go away if you just talk to it nicely and try to reason and appease it.
8%+ unemployment for nearly 4 years is going to go away if you keep savaging the people you want to hire them and sabotaging the workers who want to work rather than just sit on their buns watching Ellen all day.
Medical Costs must be controlled, but Obamacare is not the solution. It’s throwing napalm on the fire.
Inflation will not go away.
And most importantly, not everything in the universe is all about you! You are NOT the center of the universe and everyone must kiss your royal ass.
Get over it.
Then go out and do something extraordinary, not sit around blaming others.
Life ISN’T Fair. Never will be. Deal with it!
And anyone who says they can make it “fair” is a DAMNED LIAR!
“A government big enough to supply you with everything you need, is a government big enough to take away everything that you have….”–Thomas Jefferson
“My reading of history convinces me that most bad government results from too much government.”–Thomas Jefferson
NOVEMBER IS COMING!
SEE TRUTH I DARE YOU